Ep. 53: Fantasy, Sex, and The Buddha

Mindfulness facilitator, Kate Spina, comes on the pod to share her perspective on how sex fits into Buddhism. Cam's dreams about tantra are called into question, and KarenLee discovers she's not reaching Nirvana any time soon. They cover the following questions and more:

-What are the Buddha's sex tips?
-Can we reach enlightenment if we're not celibate?
-How does fantasy/sex toys/masturbation/homosexuality fit into Buddhist teachings?

You can find out more about Kate Spina's incredible work at www.KateSpina.com and you can follow her on instagram @GratefulKate.

Please let us know your thoughts to this week's question: What role should fantasy play in sex? Email us your answers at sextalkpodcast@gmail.com or call/text us at 323-472-4237. 

Thanks so much for listening and special thanks to Kate Spina!

-Cam and KarenLee

Ep. 52: Why Have Sex?

In this episode, we take down this seemingly simple question: Why have sex? Is it merely an act of physical pleasure? Or is it the pinnacle of communication? We'll delve into the many reasons to have (or not have) sex. 

Please let us know your thoughts to this week's question: When do you bring sex into the relationship?

Email us your answers at sextalkpodcast@gmail.com or call/text us at 323-472-4237.

Thanks so much for listening!

-Cam and KarenLee

Ep. 51: Relationship-Saving Sex Tips

Sex can grow stale if you're not actively trying to spice it up. In this episode, KarenLee provides a treasure trove of tips to reinvigorate your sex life. She also might have ordered Cam a sex toy. Here are some of the questions we'll cover in this episode:

-What are the key factors that can lead your sex life to lose steam?
-What are the quickest, most effective ways to wake up your sex life?
-How do you perform the most arousing erotic massage?

We love your feedback! Please send us your sex-related questions and we'll try to answer them on the show! Email us at sextalkpodcast@gmail.com or text/call us at 323-472-4237. 

Thanks for listening! 

-Cam and KarenLee

Ep. 50! College Survival Guide to Sex!

Happy 50th! In this bombass dankass episode, we air several listeners' answers to the question: What do you wish you had known about sex before entering college? We discuss the following topics and much more: 

-Bringing your sex to the next level with communication!
-Viewing sex as play rather than a serious milestone!
-How much sex and what to expect in college!
-Consent is hottt!

We love your feedback! Please let us know what you wish you had known about sex before entering college. Email us at sextalkpodcast@gmail.com or text/call us at 323-472-4237.

Thanks for listening!

-Cam and KarenLee 

Ep. 49: Why Play Games?

Cam is at the start of a new relationship! And along with all the goodies of a burgeoning romance, comes the anxiety related to all the unknowns. How will this person respond if I ask them out two nights in a row? Will they get upset if we hookup without doing anything else beforehand? What's too many emojis?

In this episode we cover the following topics and more:

-Pros and cons of playing games

-How often to express desire for someone

-The fear of hurting someone or getting hurt if it doesn't work out in the future

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Ep. 48: Cam Kissed De Girl!

If you rearrange the letters of "Cameron," you get "Romance," which is exactly where we are heading! Cam is just starting a relationship, and with it, he is rediscovering the art of kissing! In this episode we cover the following topics:

-Mind-blowing kissing tips
-When to progress beyond kissing
-Pros and cons to combining kissing and marijuana

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Ep. 47: STEP DUDE'S DEBUT! On Groping and Machismo

KarenLee's boyfriend AKA Deez debuts on the show!* We delve into the following questions:

-When should we set relationship boundaries?
-How lenient should we be with others' touching us?
-What does it mean to be a man?
-How much are we shaped by our parents?

This is a very meaty episode, and we'd love to hear your thoughts. Please text/call us at 323-472-4237 or email us at sextalkpodcast@gmail.com.

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*Technically Deez made a cameo in the FratStar episode, but throw me a fricken bone.* 

Ep. 46: Can Men And Women Just Be Friends?

My mom and I have A WILD debate about the age-old question: Can men and women just be friends...without sexual tension?! 
(Of course, we acknowledge that this varies greatly depending on sexual orientation and preferences.) 

In this episode we cover the following questions and more:
-Do men or women have an easier time being just friends?
-How does being in a relationship affect your ability to have friends of the opposite gender?
-How does hanging out as couples affect the sexual tension?

We love your feedback, questions, and comments! Text/call them to us anonymously at (323) 472-4237 or email us at sextalkpodcast@gmail.com. 

Thank you so much for listening! 

-Cam and KarenLee

Ep. 45: Who Wears Your Pants? (And Debunking Cougar Myths)

When it comes to sex, do you lead the charge? Do you follow behind? Do you switch it up? 

This episode begins with an all-out brawl after KarenLee suggests that Cam "could never be the dom, he'll always be the sub." I.E., he will always follow his partner's lead. Cam vehemently rejects this and retorts that KarenLee, as the cougar, will always be the dom. This convo then spirals into a juicy discussion in which KarenLee exposes the truth about large age-gap relationships.

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We're also looking for the craziest virginity stories! If you've got one, call and leave us a voicemail. The best story will be played on air and we'll send you some of our custom STWMM condoms as a gift!

Thanks for listening!
-Cam and KarenLee

Ep. 44: FETISHES! Deep into the Dungeon

What's a fetish? Are fetishes a problem? How do people develop fetishes? What in the world happens at a fetish club?! 

Sean Humphries, our favorite clown / fetish club bouncer, explains everything you ever wanted to know about fetishes. If you have any remaining questions after the interview, send them our way (we'll keep you anonymous) or text them anonymously to us at (323) 472-4237. We'll answer them on our show!

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Quickie #10: Cam's Lap Dance & KarenLee's Porn Convention

This wild episode covers everything from racism in the porn industry to the ethics around hiring a stripper! It begins with KarenLee humiliating Cam in front of podcast superstar Alex Blumberg. Then, KarenLee shares her main takeaways from the Exxxotica Expo 2016, and Cam recounts his experience getting a lap dance at a bachelor's party in New Orleans. 

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Ep. 43: Cam and The Ballbreaker

Cam's most PERSONAL and REVEALING story yet! Amanda, the woman responsible for Cam's one and only one-night stand, comes on the show to debrief their most memorable night together. The story escalates in an unforeseen manner that calls Cam's health into jeopardy. They also discuss college sex and factors that can lead a straight woman to want to identify as queer. Enjoy! 

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Quickie #9: Silent Admirer

Cam returns from his 7-day silent meditation retreat to detail his experience falling in love, IN SILENCE! KarenLee offers a very different story from her weekend, which involves a near-death experience. Enjoy!

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Ep. 42: The Altruistic Pimp and Online Dating Addiction

This might be our wildest episode yet! It starts with the story of how Tyler asked out my mother at a bar and then progresses into a heated discussion about the addictive nature of online dating. Half-way through the episode, the conversation shifts gears as Tyler reveals how he used to help homeless men and prostitutes in Miami, i.e., he was an altruistic pimp. This is a must-listen!

Quickie Question of the Week: DOES ONLINE DATING HELP OR HINDER YOUR CHANCES OF GETTING INTO A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP?
Please email your answers to SexTalkPodcast@gmail.com.

Check out Tyler's awesome Facebook community for TV fans called TV Show Addicts: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TVSHOWADDICTS/

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Quickie #8: Mom's Virginity, Reunions, and Retreats

Here's a quick catch-up about Mom's upcoming college, high school, and grammar school reunions (all this weekend!). They discuss what it's like to reunite with your old crushes, the person who took your virginity, and even new friends who you're meeting for the first time. They also discuss Cam's impending 7-Day Silent Meditation Retreat. Enjoy!

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Ep. 41: Long-Distance – The True Relationship Test

David, one of Cam's best high school friends, comes on the podcast to talk about his two-and-a-half year, intercontinental, long-distance relationship! He also discusses his experience teaching sex ed in Guyana with the Peace Corps. This episode covers a wide array of topics, including:

-The right time to have sex
-How to make long-distance relationships work
-When to get couples therapy

To find out more about David's work in Guyana, check out www.campglowguyana.org.
You can also find out more about the Shapeers program, which provides sex education to young leaders at Boulder: https://www.facebook.com/shapeers/ 

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Ep. 40: Is Love a Choice?

Gino joins Cam and KarenLee to discuss what it's like to be a 59-year-old man who has never been married. This episode is meant for anyone intrigued by the concepts of love and dating. In this episode, they debate many topics including:

-The role physical attraction should play in finding a partner
-The importance of being comfortable alone
-When someone should choose to marry

This week's Quickie Question: IS LOVE A CHOICE?
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Quickie #6: Grief Camp for Cuties

A very quick catch-up in which KarenLee and Cam discuss Cam's recent experience as counselor at a grief camp. KarenLee chimes in with her views on sharing a bed with someone and mascara.

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Ep. 39: Fleshlights and Flicking the Bean

It's a Cam Sandwich! Another Cam joins the show to offer a hilarious story involving a Fleshlight. Then, halfway through the episode, the conversation shifts to focus on our guest's experience being molested as a child. This episode is a real rollercoaster that is chock-full of lessons about love, forgiveness, and sex!

Let us know your thoughts on this week's Quickie Question: HAVE YOU EVER QUESTIONED YOUR OWN SEXUALITY AND WHAT WAS YOUR EXPERIENCE LIKE WITH THAT?
Please send us your answers by heading to our contact page.

For all you movie and TV buffs, check out our friend Thomas Horton's podcast CineNation at https://medium.com/cinenation-show or on the iTunes Store. It's awesome!

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Quickie #5: Stanford Rape Case + Polyamory Debrief

A fast-paced discussion about the recent Stanford sexual assault case involving Brock Allen Turner. This case hits close to home for two reasons: 1) Stanford is Cam's alma mater and 2) KarenLee and Cam also experienced a drawn out, multi-year trial with an unapologetic defendant for the murder of KarenLee's husband and Cam's father.

But that's not all! In the later half of the episode, KarenLee and Cam debrief last week's episode and share their own opinions on polyamorous relationships and friends with benefits.

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